Crop

The riding crop is probably the best-known riding utensil that has found its way out of the riding stable and into many bedrooms. The classic crop consists of a 30 cm to 1.20 m long fibreglass rod, sometimes also wooden rods. At one end is a hand-width handle, usually with a lug, and at the other end are small, stiff cords, leather lugs (or plastic lugs) or a snap cord. Both the handle and the stick are covered with leather, imitation leather or plastic. Crops can be bought in equestrian shops as well as, of course, on the internet or in erotic shops. The crop is used in bed in the same way as it is used on a horse. In case of disobedient behaviour, the submissive partner gets a lash with the whip from the dominant partner. Where the partner may and may not hit with the whip should be discussed in advance. The most common places are the buttocks or thighs, which are not very sensitive to pain. The situation is different for the back, the genitals, the stomach, or even the hands and arms. These are more sensitive, and beatings are usually a severe punishment for the sub. Clearly, the Dom should refrain from hitting the face or even the head.

Of course, the reason for using a whip also plays a decisive role. If the crop is used for pleasure, the blows will not be very hard and the man will hit his sexual partner on the buttocks with the crop during doggystyle. Gentle blows on the genitals can also increase the partner's pleasure.

In the BDSM scene, whips are also used for pleasure, but here the use is much harder and more painful. Often, the sub is punished by the Dom with the crop for a behaviour. This punishment can be so severe that the marks from the whip remain visible for a long time. A dom should never beat his sub bloody, and this practice should only be carried out with mutual consent. Both partners should agree on a stop word before their session to end it immediately if it becomes uncomfortable for either of them.

Escort ladies do not let their guests whip them. Many of the escort ladies have a whip or similar in their escort equipment. Special fetish or BDSM ladies give the guests a variety of pleasures with whips and other utensils. If the guests already know the escort lady and there is a good relationship of trust between them, then it can also be that the escort lady lets herself be whipped.