Dirty talk

Also called verbal eroticism. For many people, language also has an effect on sexual arousal. If a partner is into dirty talk, silence is not golden! On the contrary, dirty talk is supposed to make sex more uninhibited and therefore hotter. Role-playing helps you to say dirty things in a more relaxed way. Words like “give it to me!” and many more can be used here. There are no limits to your imagination. 

It's not exactly easy for some to just come out of their shell and turn on their partner with dirty talk phrases. The easiest way is to first tell your partner what you are thinking. Before sex, you can tell your partner how hot you are or what you would like to experience with your partner in bed. During foreplay, it's also easy to express your feelings, how excited you are, or to describe to your partner exactly what you want now. This also turns many people on. It doesn't always have to be the sex film sentences in which you “insult” your partner. Dirty talk is also desired during sex. Confirming how good the sex is and how much you like it can get your partner extra fired up. Again, everyone can openly express desires and say “give it to me harder!” or “take me harder!” This way you can slowly increase and learn to come out of yourself. However, no one should simply learn any sentences and say them. You must really mean what you say to your partner. If you do not feel comfortable with what you are saying, you should not say it. If you now replace some everyday words like penis, vagina, breasts, butt, or sex with words like cock, cunt, tits, ass, or fuck/bang/bang … even nice and polite compliments become dirty talk. “You have such hot tits” sounds different from “I like your breasts” or “Your cunt smells good again today” as opposed to “You smell good”, so words can gradually be replaced, and the dirty talk just bubbles out of you. Of course, there are also a few no-go's that you shouldn't say to your partner in bed. Especially not if you are a dirty talk novice. Women don't want to be called a whore, bitch, sow or similar. Dirty talk also depends on the tone of voice. A quieter voice to get things going, pauses in the right places, to ensure that the partner goes crazy with lust. Of course, dirty talk can not only be done in the bedroom. Sexting is also popular. Erotic and hot texting via SMS or other messenger services. Hot and erotic messages can be left for your partner on the kitchen table or whispered softly in your ear during a visit to a restaurant. No matter how, dirty talk heats the mood!