Escort service from the point of one guest's view

Peter: I was still very young, just 18 years old, and was simply curious. In a forum, a lady was introduced who immediately appealed to me visually and the attraction to experience something new became very great. Later it became the dreariness of everyday life and the lack of time to go searching. Today it is the desire to experience something in my marriage and not to live in monogamy. I have other ideas than my wife in bed and especially the discretion and anonymity of the escorts, the experience and the variety I appreciate very much. For me, there are and have been various reasons in the course of my life to book an escort lady.

Peter: Well, I don't keep a tally, but I think there have been around 200-300 dates with over 100 different ladies in my escort career. Partly as bookings in a hotel, at my home or in a flat of the agency.

Peter: That is difficult to say. Both have their advantages and disadvantages. With an independent model, you are in direct contact, you can exchange your wishes and needs directly in advance. That way, we can first get to know each other to see if we have the same interests and harmonise together. With an agency, there is always someone in between. The advantages of an agency are clearly discretion, professionalism, transparency, service, reliability and mutual security. With an agency, a replacement is quickly found in the event of a cancellation and the agreements are more binding. In terms of price, independent escorts are of course cheaper, but with an agency the service is almost always guaranteed. I rarely book Independent Escort anymore, unless they are ladies I know who have left an agency. For me, booking through an agency is much more relaxed. In addition, I can dare a blind date here because the agency already knows my preferences and how I tick. If I have the feeling that I'm just being fobbed off by an agency and only get meaningless answers, then the agency is out for me.

Peter: As I said before, sometimes I go on a blind date so that I just have to tell the agency that already knows me that I would like a date at a certain time. I then don't know which lady is coming to see me until she is at the door. The booking process varies from agency to agency. Some I call, some I reach via WhatsApp, others via email. The websites of the agencies are usually clear and I choose the woman who appeals to me the most in terms of appearance. Sometimes I only pay attention to the service of the lady, which really depends on what I'm in the mood for.

Peter: I have to be honest, before my first date I was really excited, nervous, had stage fright and suddenly felt insecure, yet I was full of anticipation. To this day, I am excited and nervous every time a new lady comes to my door. It's like a real date and that's what it should be. Not a put-on mechanical game, it should feel like a real date with a happy ending. I prefer hotel dates and choose a nice room, find out beforehand what the lady likes to drink, get some fruit and chocolate. She should feel in good hands with me and a glass of wine together usually lightens the mood. That's why I usually go on 4-hour dates, so we have enough time to get to know each other and to get used to each other. Of course, I don't need that with known ladies.

Peter: Yes, I have and I must say that such long dates are a hot potato. My experiences range from "OK, thanks, that's it" to "when do we want to go out again? It is very difficult to spend a long time with a stranger. Personally, I can say from experience that you should know the ladies you book for a long date over several days personally and have met them 1-2 times beforehand.

Peter: I'm sure you expect me to reply that we have hot sex day in and day out. No, that's how it is, of course. It's like a normal date with a woman on a short holiday. We see the city, go out to eat, go to a museum and talk a lot. It's important to me that I don't see the woman as an object, but as a woman. Weekend bookings are my favourite. The lady comes on a Friday evening and we go out for dinner, have a drink and talk. Because of the long time, nothing is rushed. On Saturday, we usually do an agreed programme, as mentioned above, and in the evening I am happy to be together with the lady. However, I only make such bookings with ladies I already know and where I feel the chemistry is right. But of course I also have only 2-4 hour dates, where communication is not so much in the foreground.

Peter: I want her to be natural. Her behaviour should not be forced and she should be sympathetic, I know that this is always a matter of opinion and very individual, but I always try to make it as easy as possible for the ladies by first having conversations and showing honest interest in her. She should stand by what she offers. Which brings us to the point of honesty. There is no point in lying on the sedcard and offering more than she really does in the end. I also want the lady to enjoy what she is doing. The outward appearance is very important to me, as well as the correspondence with the pictures on the pages. If I want to invite a lady to a meal, I want to sit with the lady who smiles at me in the photo and not someone who is 20 kilos heavier, doesn't speak a word of German and is unkempt.

Peter: Most important of all for me, do not support forced prostitution! Women should not and must not be forced to have sex. You can also tell when they feel uncomfortable, then you should rather break off the date than force and torture the lady with something she probably doesn't enjoy and doesn't want to do. If you get involved with the person and not the "prostitute", you will receive a top service with a lot of passion and sympathy. Not because it is part of it, but because the lady also wants it and enjoys it.

You should also think about what you want from a date in the first place. Is it just simple and casual sex or are you also looking for closeness, affection and attention? With the former, you are in good hands with an escort, with the latter you have to be aware that this attention is only limited to a certain time and is no substitute for a girlfriend. If you are aware of this, you can spend wonderful hours or even days with a lady.

There is, in my opinion, nothing more distracting than the prior service arrangement and asking for the money at the beginning of the date. Either you discreetly slip the envelope somewhere at the beginning or, what I prefer, a friendly handover afterwards.
I am firmly convinced that this accounts for an 80% success rate on my dates. I hardly ever have a bad experience because of this. How is the communication, how are the photos? Unfortunately, it is difficult to get feedback, because some reviews and feedbacks on the internet are bought or created by the agency itself. There are a handful of serious and really good agencies on the internet.

Last but not least, be yourself, don't pretend and then nothing can go wrong. Good luck on your first date!