Golden shower - fetish or fun?

Have you ever heard or read about golden shower? It is relatively quickly clear that these terms refer to sex in connection with urine. But what exactly happens there? Isn't this a very specific area? Or is there a large fan community? We get to the bottom of these questions and explain everything you need to know about golden shower sex.

Definition

The term golden shower, or GS for short, refers to a type of sexual play in which urine is perceived as a stimulating component. Some people, mainly men, find it very pleasurable to be urinated on by women during sexual intercourse. GS games come in many variations, which we will discuss in more detail in a moment. Some golden shower lovers are men and women who have discovered peeing on each other while experimenting. Both partners found it pleasurable and now like to incorporate it into their sex life from time to time. Outside of this area, these people have little to do with the fetish scene. However, there are people for whom urine has to be an integral part of their love life because they no longer feel any satisfaction without GS. The boundaries between an occasional pee game, a strong preference and an almost compulsive desire are very blurred.

Codewords

As you can probably imagine, golden shower sex is a taboo subject that meets with little to no acceptance in society. Many find the idea of being peed on during sex unimaginable. In order to be able to talk about their preference in public, lovers of urine therefore use some synonyms for their fetish. The common so-called code words are, as already mentioned, golden shower, GS or platinum shower. The terms water sports and undinism also come up more often in connection with pissing women. Occasionally, words like pissing or golden shower ladies are also used, which of course no longer has much to do with a secret language.

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Stimulating or repulsive?

Well, we think that everything should be allowed during sex, as long as both parties like it. And we've found that there are a lot more people who secretly want to try GS than you might think. As is so often the case with erotic desires, it is communication that fails, especially in relationships. And for healthy people there is nothing at all wrong or even disgusting about urine, we can only advise everyone: Talk about the topic of golden showers with your partner directly. The reaction may well surprise you. On the one hand, longer partnerships often become boring over time and both lovers would be happy to have a breath of fresh air in their love life. For another, there is a chance that your favourite person has thought of the same thing before. At the very least, chances are good that he or she is not averse to trying out a golden shower game for your sake. After all, you already exchange all kinds of bodily fluids, so warm urine won't make a difference to many.

Active or passive

Some people have a very clear preference for a certain behaviour pattern in bed: they are either submissive or dominant. These roles can be transferred one-to-one to peeing games. Some people get incredibly turned on by being peed on before or even during sex. This can take place while standing, sitting or lying down. Some like to accompany their partner to the bathroom and let him urinate on their hands. In any case, these variations describe the passive or submissive type. Others increase their own arousal or even that of their partner by peeing on him. This behaviour then describes the active or dominant part.

Increases

Increases are more in the direction of fetish, because here we discuss special GS forms. For some people, drinking golden shower is incredibly arousing. Golden shower activities often take place at specially arranged golden shower meetings. And some combine their preference for urine with other fetishes and seek out a golden shower dominatrix, for example. Men and women who can't find satisfaction at home also like to look for golden shower contacts exclusively to realise this one fantasy. Golden shower dating is not uncommon and both men and women can be sure that the date is open to the topic of urine.

Pure sensuality or an absolute no-go?

Well, whether it's sensuality or a no-go is definitely in the eye of the beholder! Can you imagine watching your partner or a complete stranger pee or feeling the warm golden shower on your body? As I said, there's nothing repulsive about a man or woman getting off on this form of sex. And there are plenty of like-minded people who like to get together for a hot GS date every now and then. Whether you call golden showers a fetish or not is, of course, up to you. However, we have found that a lot of people were very dismissive of pee games at first and eventually changed their minds after one or more tries.

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Isn't urine unhealthy?

If GS is still more or less new territory for you, you are probably now asking yourself whether urine is not unhealthy? After all, it is clear to everyone that this is an excretory product of the human body. This is probably the reason for the generally very negative attitude towards golden shower sex. Of course, you or the partner who urinates should absolutely be healthy. In principle, urine is sterile, but only if there are no contagious diseases. Venereal diseases or hepatitis B can certainly be transmitted during urine play. Therefore, you should definitely exercise caution here. This is certainly not a problem with a familiar partner. You have probably already licked a drop or two of pee during mutual oral sex anyway. However, if you want to meet an unknown person for water sports activities, caution is advised. However, it is not unusual in the scene to show each other a current health certificate up front.
Otherwise, you should of course pay attention to general body hygiene and a particularly well-groomed intimate area when playing pee games. Those who want to pee regularly are also well advised to pay attention to a healthy lifestyle. Why? Urine becomes almost completely neutral in colour, smell and taste as soon as vitamin-rich food and plenty of water are consumed.

Tips for successful Golden Shower experiences

Sex games with urine should definitely be well prepared. This does not mean that you have to think everything through to the smallest detail. Nevertheless, some precautions should simply be taken:

1. moisture protection for bed & co.

Especially during the first attempts, pee never ends up just where you want it to! Therefore, cover the bed, sofa or other textiles with a special latex sheet or foil. You wouldn't be the first person to get a new mattress after a golden shower. Alternatively, of course, you can use the bathroom. In the shower or bathtub, you can enjoy the whole thing to the full without giving a single thought to the bed linen.

2. safety first

Talk through with your partner what exactly you want to try. Just like with bondage or S&M sex, only do what you both feel like doing! When peeing on each other, it makes sense to determine a stop signal in the form of a pre-determined word. "No" usually makes little sense as a safeword, because S&M sex is more often about dominance or role-playing. Since it can be part of the partner's role to be coy or to react negatively, it is better to use other terms. For example, "yellow card" for discomfort and "red card" for immediate termination. Of course, you and your partner are free to choose your own safewords. These must be effective both in the heat of the moment and when aroused, as well as being noted by both of you.

3. trust is important

Peeing has a lot to do with trust. Especially if you and your partner are new to erotic urination, you must be able to absolutely rely on each other. This includes, for example, the health requirements already mentioned. But also humiliations that go too far or really hurt the other person must be ruled out at all costs. If you observe these points, erotic play with pee can become a hot experience in the truest sense of the word.

4. pee? Gladly, but please seriously

Would you rather do your Golden Shower experiments outside your relationship? There are some special rules for this, but the ones mentioned so far still apply. Hygiene, proof of health and absolute reliability to stop immediately if the safeword is mentioned are therefore obligatory. Furthermore, you should only look for sex partners for golden showers on reputable platforms. Extensive precautions would be necessary in a hotel, but many clubs and fetish establishments have rooms specially equipped for peeing. Here you also meet on absolutely neutral ground. This gives you the security of knowing that you are not alone, but that you are nevertheless far away from civilisation, getting up close and personal with someone you don't know.

5. take it easy

Take it slow. Unless you already know exactly what you're into when it comes to sex with urine, it's better to take it step-by-step. For example, it's not everyone's cup of tea to pee directly into your mouth. And even if you're into punishment in general, it's different when you're tied up and a golden shower dominatrix pees in your face.

6. make GS experiences - but with whom?

For the first attempts with GS, your own partner is a good choice, because this way you can directly exclude many insecurity factors. However, if that is not an option at all, it is best to look for a professional golden shower lady or another amateur. The professional is usually able to recognise exactly what you really want and respond precisely to it. A successful first golden shower experience is thus guaranteed. Contacting a lady who is new to the field but is just as keen to experiment as you are is also a good option. You will both proceed cautiously and probably gain interesting insights into water games in the process. There are also amateurs who already have experience with peeing and would like to infect you with the enthusiasm for GS.

7 After the shower is before the shower

You should always take a shower after urine sex. If the pee stays on the skin for a long time and dries there, it usually starts to itch or burn. In addition, it might smell a little unpleasant and you certainly want to avoid that. Apropos smell: If you try the mysterious undinism at home, you will have to clean up the day after. This is not a problem in the bathtub, but it is with textiles or grout in the bathroom. These take on the urine smell relatively quickly and are difficult to get rid of - especially in summer. Therefore, after enjoying the Golden Shower, you will probably have to turn into a cleaning fairy. But that doesn't detract from the experience itself, and a sparkling clean bathroom or the cleaning lady outfit might invite you right back for another round.

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