Safer Sex - What you need to know about protection against sexual diseases

Many viruses, such as the HI-virus, which causes AIDS, hepatitis A and B and human papilloma viruses, are transmitted via infected body fluids, such as blood, semen, vaginal fluid and saliva.

The human immunodeficiency virus (HIV) is a pathogen that attacks the immune system and is one of the most feared sexually transmitted diseases. The infection manifests itself after a few weeks and then breaks out in flu-like sympotms, with fever, joint pain, night sweats and exhaustion. This acute infection usually lasts 1-2 weeks, in rare cases up to 4 weeks. Gradually, the HIV viruses trigger the Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndrome, or AIDS for short, in the body. Put simply, AIDS weakens the body's immune system and makes it almost impossible for the body to defend itself against other viruses, bacteria or fungi. If the HI virus is detected in time, there are good treatment options and the possibility of continuing to lead a largely normal life is relatively high.

It is transmitted through sexual intercourse, as the sperm, vaginal and intestinal fluids contain a particularly high concentration of HIV viruses. In addition, the mucous membranes in the vagina, intestine and cervix are very sensitive and, like the urethra or the inside of the foreskin, can absorb HIV very easily and, unlike uninjured skin, do not form any protection against the viruses. In contrast to sex, oral sex is almost safe. The amount of viruses in saliva, tears, sweat, urine or faeces is not sufficient for infection. The uninjured mucous membrane of the mouth has a natural, very strong protection, so that an infection by HIV during oral sex is impossible, as long as there are no injuries in the mouth.

There is no infection by HIV when kissing, coughing or sneezing, going to the toilet, living together, living or working.

Hepatitis is a viral disease of the liver, the most commonly transmitted sexual disease in Germany. The symptoms are very similar in both types, such as fatigue, abdominal and joint pain, vomiting and the typical yellowing of the skin and eyes, which has also made hepatitis known as "jaundice". Most of the time, these two sexually transmitted diseases run an acute course and are cured in a few weeks to months and rarely become chronic. Once you have contracted it, you have lifelong immune protection against this hepatitis. STDs are transmitted through vaginal, oral or even anal intercourse. Again, there is no infection through kissing, sneezing or coughing. In contrast to HIV, you can be vaccinated against hepatitis A and B. In most cases, this is already done as part of the vaccination process. In most cases, this has already been done as part of the preventive medical check-ups as a child and you have lifelong protection. If this is not the case, you can still get vaccinated against hepatitis in adulthood.

Human papilloma viruses, HPV for short, infect the epithelial cells of the skin, which then lead to tumour formation. Most people will probably be familiar with the effects of the virus under genital warts, genital warts or viral warts of the mucous membrane. These tumours are usually benign and annoying, but not harmful. Worse are tumours caused by HPV, such as cervical cancer or white skin cancer. HPV is usually transmitted through unprotected sex, but also through sharing a razor, the same toothbrush or unprotected oral sex. A vaccination against HPV has been available for some years and is recommended in adolescence, both for girls and boys, but you can also be vaccinated against it in adulthood.

The list of sexually transmitted diseases is long, but you have certainly heard of gonorrhoea, chlamydia or syphilis. Again, transmission occurs through vaginal, anal and oral sex contact, but also through shared sex toys. All three STIs are triggered by bacteria. Again, transmission of STIs does not occur through kissing or physical proximity. These contagious STIs can be treated very well with an antibiotic and usually heal completely if they have been treated. Without treatment, they can lead to serious consequences. Often, there are no symptoms of contagious STIs. If symptoms do occur, they are manifested by severe itching, increased discharge and skin changes on the genitals and in the anal area. Have yourself and your sexual partner checked regularly for transmissible STIs.

Pregnancy can be something desirable and great. However, when we talk about safe sex, unwanted pregnancy is also something you should protect yourself from. A woman ovulates in the middle of her cycle, on average on the 14th day after the start of her period. On this day, the woman's egg can be fertilised between 12-24 hours. However, this does not mean that you only need to protect yourself on this day, because sperm can survive up to 5 days in the uterus under ideal conditions.

The first thing you've probably thought of is the condom, and you're right! The condom is the only effective protection against sexually transmitted diseases and unwanted pregnancy. Having safe sex without a condom is like driving a car without a seatbelt, you can do it and it can go well, but in case of an accident the damage is huge. The probability of getting pregnant despite using a condom is about 2-12 women out of 100 who got pregnant within a year of using a condom, however, it is rarely a material defect but the incorrect use of the condom.  It is important in safe contraception with condoms that the condom, or condom as it is also called, fits properly. It is best to know what size condom you or your partner need. If the condoms are too small, they tear quickly; if the condom is too tight, it hinders blood flow to the penis. Condoms that are too big slip off easily, get stuck or the intensity of the act is lost. The best thing to do is to use a condom size table.

Not only the size is important for safe sex, but also the correct use of the condom. For example, it is important that the condom is really pulled over the penis as described in the package insert. For beginners, it is advisable to practise putting on and taking off the condom.

Condoms offer a colourful and varied range. Not only are they available in different sizes and from different brands, but also nubby condoms, condoms in different flavours, such as strawberry, banana or vanilla, which are particularly suitable for oral sex. There are condoms that are particularly thin so that the intensity for the man is not disturbed and he has a great experience despite the condom. Condoms with anaesthetics should be used with caution, as they can numb the genitals locally in such a way that any injuries are not felt.  To comply with the rules of safe sex, it is important to use a new condom for each sexual partner and each sexual act. Do not use one condom for two women, just as you must change condoms when you switch from anal to oral or vaginal intercourse.  If you have a latex allergy, you can already buy latex-free condoms from the big name manufacturers. Although the contraceptives are made of natural rubber, an animal product, casein, is used as a binding agent during production. Therefore, there is also an alternative for vegans that is produced without animal products. The vegan condom is currently offered by 4 manufacturers. 

The spray condom is currently in the development phase. It is sprayed onto the stiff penis and is supposed to form a latex layer over the penis after a few seconds drying time and protect like a "normal" condom. However, the spray condom is not yet available in stores.

Contraception without a condom and without hormones or implants

A number of pure contraceptive methods are available to avoid pregnancy that are neither expensive nor hormonally stressful, nor do they interfere with a woman's natural structure. We are talking about methods such as taking the temperature, the Billings method, in which the change in the woman's cervical mucus gives an indication of the fertile days, or the sympothermal method, in which both methods come together. These methods are not useful for contraception, they rather serve to find the right time for fertilisation in order to get pregnant in a planned way. The Perl Index for all 3 methods is up to 35 and therefore represents the most unsafe contraception of the methods of contraception mentioned by us and offers no protection against transmissible sexual diseases!

1. Hygiene regulations: Not only transmittable STIs play a role in "safe sex", but the general transmission of diseases. Thus, all sexual partners should wash their hands thoroughly before having intercourse and, if necessary, take a shower beforehand.

2. Use contraceptives only once: condoms, femidoms and lick wipes are intended and suitable for single use only. Single use also means that you do not turn these contraceptives over. It is also important that she does not use her sex protection for anal, oral and vaginal, but that she changes the cover every time, as well as when she changes sex partners.

3. Cleaning sex toys after each use: Clean your used sex toy each time before you use it again. If you have used the dildo for anal satisfaction, it must be cleaned before vaginal use. The same applies to any other sex toy. Clean it with a neutral soap and warm water. Common household disinfectants are not suitable for cleaning because they attack the material. The best thing is to clean your toy before each use and also after use, so you can ensure that no germs, or even dust and dirt deposits stick to your toy. Of course, you can also put lubricant-free condoms over the toy. Caution. Lubricant can attack the structure of the toy, so use both lubricant-free condoms and only use lubricant that is approved for toys.

4. Refresh vaccinations: Some vaccinations for the above diseases need to be refreshed in adulthood if needed. Have your doctor check your immune status regarding these diseases.

5. Regular checks at the doctor's for sexually transmitted diseases: don't be falsely shy, visit a doctor regularly to be checked for sexually transmitted diseases. If you notice any changes in or around the genital area, see a doctor right away.

6. Disclose an infection to your sexual partner: It is wrong to be ashamed of anything here and put the other person at risk because of false charm.

7. Use protective aids: The use of protective devices, such as condoms, femidoms or lick cloths, which protect against infection from sexually transmitted diseases should be compulsory.  

According to the Prostitution Protection Act, section 32, paragraph 1, "clients and customers of prostitutes as well as prostitutes must ensure that condoms are used during sexual intercourse". The law protects both clients, prostitutes and third parties. The escort business falls under the protection of this law. The escort ladies at BB Escort have condoms and suitable lubricant with them on each of their dates. If the guest wants other contraceptive methods such as the condom for the woman, or even the dental damm, it is important to discuss this with the agency before the date, so that the lady has enough time to adjust to the special wishes of the customer.
The ladies at BB-Escort adhere to the above safersex rules, come freshly showered and have themselves examined regularly.