How to pamper your clitoris properly

The female vagina, also called the vulva, consists of several areas that all play a more or less important role during sex. In addition to the clitoris, around which (here) everything revolves, there are the labia minora and labia majora, as well as the vaginal opening. The location of the clitoris is at the upper end of the labia minora or inner labia. In a normal state, i.e., without physical arousal, it is largely covered by the surrounding skin. The clitoris itself is called by doctors the clitoral glans and this is almost completely covered by a foreskin, similar to the tip of a man's penis. Such a protective skin is also necessary because this sensitive area is covered with up to 8,000 nerves and sensory cells. Besides the clitoris, only the human fingertip is covered with a similar number of nerves. Of course, this explains why this mini organ has such a great influence on female pleasure. It is also clear why it actually brings women to orgasm more often than penetration of the vagina. 

If you don't yet know exactly which type of play your woman prefers, stroking is a great place to start. However, you must always make sure that there is enough lubrication. If your lady is not yet aroused and therefore not wet enough, you should definitely use some lubricant or a suitable oil. For the latter, coconut oil is a good choice, for example. Your goal is to get the lady of your heart in the right mood by gently touching her clitoris. So, there is hardly any question of colloquial “fingering” here. You should also slowly approach the sensitive heart of the vulva and let your fingers glide lightly over the outer and inner labia a few times. This will probably already turn a woman on, which you can tell by the fact that she breathes faster and becomes moist. Now you can slowly circle your fingertip closer and closer around the clitoris and also run it over it very gently. Most women prefer a steady, slow movement that steadily raises the arousal curve. 

For many couples, oral sex is an integral part of their sexual life. No wonder, it is so nice and moist, gentle and warm to be pampered intimately by your partner's tongue and lips. But how do you approach this kind of stimulation? Well, cunnilingus (Latin for cunnus — female pubic area and lingua — tongue) is probably the gentlest way to stimulate the clitoris. Similar to stroking, however, you should not immediately play with the tongue on the clitoris, but first consider the surrounding area. Start by stroking your broad tongue slowly upwards from the lower end of the labia. You should be very gentle the first few times. After a few strokes, you can apply a little more pressure. If you're doing it right, your lady will certainly start to come towards you with her pelvis. This is a good sign that you can now concentrate on licking and kissing the clit. Here, too, you should keep calm and start by gently gliding over the pearl. As the tongue is also quite sensitive, you can certainly feel how your lady's clit swells and becomes firmer and firmer.

Vibrators are not only used frequently for masturbation. Why not? Whether sensitive or robust, short or long clitoris — almost all women love the vibration between their thighs. The even vibrations are also really exciting and unfortunately can neither be done nor compared manually or with the mouth. In addition to the vibration, you can vary the pressure and speed with the sex toy. Perfect for hot clit games. If you are confident in pampering your woman clitorally with the vibrator, just get started. Basically, the same principle applies as with all other techniques. You will know undoubtedly whether the lady of your heart feels pleasure during your teasing clitoral games. When the vagina becomes moist, the clitoris swells and hardens, you will automatically know that you are on the right track. And if in doubt, just ask the lady how you can best give it to her. She will certainly be happy about the special attention and willingly give you information.