Gang Bang and Group Sex

Gang bangs, orgies, and group sex — anyone who thinks about this topic either has concrete ideas or is initially overwhelmed. By definition, group sex is a sexual act involving at least three people. There are no upper limits.

But what is an orgy?

At larger and more debauched events, people like to talk about an orgy. Originally, the term comes from ancient Greek and describes secret acts from an ancient cult. Later, in modern times, the meaning of the word changed. An orgy now means one or more acts that deliberately violate morals. In particular, of course, an orgy violates sexual mores — and it is precisely this fact that makes the idea so arousing. Just as a conventional orgy, an orgy with women or an “orgy of men”, i.e., an orgy exclusively among men, is also a conceivable scenario. The latter is more likely within the homosexual community.

In fact, however, there are generally more men than women present during group sex. In these cases, one speaks of male surplus. Many women love to be played with by several men. For example, while the woman is giving a blowjob to one man, another man is penetrating her anally or vaginally — possibly both at the same time. Equally, desirable are additional hands or genitals from additional men who wander over the woman's body and increase the pleasure immeasurably. No surprise: a man's surplus party organized especially for this purpose is the secret fantasy of many women. In precisely such cases, by the way, there is talk of gang bang. Gang bang describes the alternating penetration of one or a few people.

Since there are so many types of group sex, all constellations can occur accordingly. There is not always a surplus of men, although this type of play has established itself as the most popular type of group sex. Often the first group sex takes place either in a swingers club or in a private setting. The first valuable experience can be gained in a partner swap between two couples or even in a threesome. Otherwise, basically anything that pleases the participants is good and right. So, you can penetrate, caress or lick for all you're worth without any inhibitions. Although sex with several people can sometimes seem a little uncoordinated, with good planning it is a wonderful composition of the union of several bodies.

A great way to get started is simply to see what the others are up to at a gentlemen's surplus party or in a swingers' club. Through a little voyeurism, your idea of what you want and what you crave is solidified. Similarly, observation is a wonderful way to stimulate new ideas. You can definitely let your imagination run wild because, much to the delight of many participants, there is hardly anything that doesn't exist in group sex.

Caution: Another point that should not be neglected is safety. Especially if you don't know the other participants, a condom on each penis is mandatory. After all, you only want to take away positive memories from the experience, and (sex) diseases are definitely not one of them.

There is no clear answer to this question, but we would tend to say that women definitely like group sex. “It's like food, one likes vanilla and the next likes strawberries, it's nobody's business. I like it when as many men as possible make out with me. I don't see a problem there, and I love what I do.” — This is the comment of a lady who is part of group sex full-time. “Of course you have to like it”, she continues.

Group sex as a secret fantasy indeed engages many women. Who knows, maybe even your wife or girlfriend? It is often mistakenly assumed that group sex and gang bangs are a male-only fantasy, but this is not true at all. Just talk to your partner about it and see what happens. You might be pleasantly surprised.

Fortunately, these examples clearly show that many women not only dream of group sex and gang bangs, but also live out these fantasies. As a general rule, it can be said that many women fantasize about group sex or a gentlemen's excess party, but don't necessarily dare. Time to change that, don't you think?