Rules of conduct active

With certain rules of conduct, one regulates exactly the behaviour that the submissive partner should display. The rules of conduct are imposed by the dominant partner. Mostly, these rules of conduct are applied in BDSM play. They are often discussed verbally and briefly between the Dom and the sub, such as "be quiet" or "turn around!". However, some rules of conduct can be agreed upon and recorded verbally beforehand and sometimes even in writing, in so-called "slave contracts". Here it is described or discussed exactly how the bottom has to behave. Usually these rules of conduct include things like "do not speak without being asked", "do not look at or touch the Dom" or a certain gesture may not be made. If the sub does not comply with the agreed rules of conduct, he will be punished.
The punishment can be of different kinds. For example, the sub will be whipped, tied up or humiliated, depending on what was previously agreed upon by both parties. Escort ladies like to impose rules of conduct on the gentlemen as desired and tell the gentlemen where to go. They command the submissive man to remain silent until he is asked to speak. The submissives are also not allowed to make any sounds, despite torture or sexual stimulation. There are hardly any limits to this erotic role play, only one thing is certain: the escort lady always takes the active part. She decides what is done, eaten or not eaten and takes over all decision-making power for the man for a pre-determined period of time. The attraction of submitting is great and includes a wide range for role-playing and chastisement, but also for tender and relaxing release. It is always important to clarify in advance how both imagine the erotic role play and what rules and limits there are for the respective partners. A stop word should also be agreed upon, which interrupts the entire game if one partner becomes uncomfortable.

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