Men fattening their women: the feeding fetish

A feeder is a person who gets sexually excited by feeding his partner. The explicitly desired goal is the significant weight gain of the sex companion - and this is not just about pronounced hips and fat women's asses. Body fat in itself is perceived as incredibly sensual - the more, the better.

And the fact of being actively involved in the process of feeding fat also exerts a not inconsiderable appeal. The English term for this fetish is "feederism" - translated as feeding fetish. In fact, we need to look at this love of fat from the psychological side to understand it better.

Feederism is described in the book "Archives of Sexual Behavior" by authors Terry, L. L., Suschinsky, K. D., Lalumiere, M. L., & Vasey, P. L. as "a fat fetish that focuses on erotic eating, feeding and weight gain".There are two types of people that exist within this fetish culture: Feeders and Feedees. Feeders are people who find sexual pleasure in feeding other people and seeing them gain weight. In contrast, feedees are people who find sexual pleasure in being fed by others and gaining weight.In psychological literature, the feeder type is described as a paraphilia - a term used to describe an unusual or uncommon sexual interest. There is not much data on how common this feeding fetish is.However, the research findings on the book "Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life" by Justin J. Lehmiller are interesting. 

According to the social psychologist and author, they suggest that at least the fantasy of being a feeder is not as rare as originally thought.The basis for this book was a survey of 4,175 Americans who were asked extensive questions about their sexual fantasies. This included the question of whether they had ever fantasised about feeding someone else. The results were fairly similar for all genders and sexual orientations: 13-19% of participants said they had ever fantasised or imagined feeding someone. Heterosexual women were the least likely to have thought about it (13%) and homosexual men the most likely (19%). However, no more than two percent of any gender or sexual group reported having frequent feeder fantasies. So recurrent or strong sexual interest seems to be rather rare. However, the feeder syndrome is acted out much more frequently in the constellation of men fattening women - the variant of women fattening men is much rarer.

There are various theories about this. Some claim that the extreme feeding fetish is an exaggeration of the fact that we find food and eating mildly arousing in the first place.

Evidence for this would be a study in which people not interested in feeding reported their sexual arousal when looking at and listening to sexual, neutral and food stimuli.

The researchers found that feeding stimuli were perceived as more arousing than neutral stimuli (though not as arousing as sexual stimuli). Others, however, argue that the feeder fetish has characteristics that overlap with both morphophilia and BDSM.

Wait a minute, we have to explain this briefly: Morphophilia describes the sexual attraction to a certain body feature - in this case fat or obesity. In other words, male feeders simply like all-round fat girls. They love the softness of plump breasts, big bellies and heaving buttocks.Men who fatten women, however, often also satisfy a more or less strongly developed sadistic streak, which reveals the BDSM character of feeding: it is to some extent about discipline. Feeders want to experience the power they have by controlling the food supply, its timing and quantity. Fattening can even be a form of humiliation.

Of course they want to! After all, sex is one of our basic needs and voluminous girls are sometimes even said to be particularly wild in bed. Whether you can get them excited about feeding you beyond an erotic snack is another matter. The fact is that many men are attracted to hot, voluptuous women. The idea of burying your face in huge cleavage or feeling the weight of a fat woman on top of you quickens their pulse. They love the fact that ruby women don't care about the dictates of society and can eat even bigger portions with great pleasure. There are also some curvy women among our escorts whose sexy curves make men's hearts beat faster. The ladies are definitely up for a dinner together - after all, a tingling night can be well introduced by dining together. But be careful, dear gentlemen, there is one thing you should know before you make an appointment. The following applies to our escort ladies: Please do not feed them!