French without a condom and what consequences this has for escort ladies and escort clients

French eroticism is part of sex for most couples. Especially as foreplay, the game with the mouth is used to really heat up the partner. Escort ladies also enjoy it when they can spoil the client orally. But as hot as the mood often is on an escort date, it is also “safety first” when it comes to a good blowjob. Especially in the escort industry, the protection against sexually transmitted diseases through a condom is very important, also during oral sex. This article is all about the legal side and the consequences for escort clients and escort ladies if they have oral sex without a condom.

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The Law

Escort ladies are legally subject to the German Prostitution Protection Act (ProstSchG), which was passed in October 2016. In addition to registration obligations and safety, health protection is also included in this law. Most relevant for escort clients and escort ladies is § 32 The Condom Obligation, “Clients and customers of prostitutes, as well as prostitutes, have to ensure that condoms are used during sexual intercourse.” Anyone who understands sexual intercourse to mean only the actual act or sex itself is wrong. Rather, sexual intercourse in this sense includes vaginal, oral and anal intercourse. The only thing that does not require the use of condoms is the so-called handjob, where the woman “jerks off” the man.

French eroticism in the escort

Escort ladies always have enough condoms with them for their dates. Often in different sizes. Should escort clients require special sizes, it is important to inform the escort agency of this when booking, or to carry sufficient condoms with you yourself. Almost all escort ladies at BB Escort offer the classic blowjob with pleasure to get you really going. But not without protection! Many of our escort ladies put the condom on you so cleverly that you don't even notice you're wearing one.

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Blowjob without condom with an escort lady

You still want oral sex without a condom with one of our escort ladies? Then we must advise you against booking. Our escort ladies are subject to the Prostitution Protection Act (ProstSchG) and accordingly also adhere to the law of only giving a man a blowjob with a condom. Should you persuade or even urge the escort lady to perform a blowjob without a condom, the escort lady may immediately break off the date. In this case, the cancellation of the date by the escort lady has the consequence that you still pay the escort lady's full fee. If the escort lady has already received the fee, as recommended by our agency, you will not receive a refund for the remaining time, no matter how long the date lasted up to that point.

Consequences of a blowjob without a rubber for clients

Not only the complete fee has to be paid in this case, should the lady break off the date immediately, you are also threatened with consequences. If the escort lady reports you, you may face a fine of up to €50,000. The amount of the fine depends on whether the oral sex was committed negligently or with intent. If you have urged or coerced the escort, this will be considered intentional and you will have to expect a higher fine than if you have negligently “forgotten” the condom in the heat of the moment. In addition to the fine, you will only be able to book ladies with payment on account at our agency. This means that you transfer the full fee in trust to the agency before booking. Should you approach the lady again or should she force you to have oral sex without protection, the escort lady will cancel the date again and we will pay the escort lady the full amount of your payment on account.

Physical consequences

The purpose of this law is to protect both clients and escort ladies from possible sexually transmitted diseases. Unfortunately, a lack of knowledge in society means that many people believe that they cannot contract syphilis and other diseases through oral intercourse. But far from it. A transmission of gonorrhoea from the active part, i.e. the escort lady, to the passive part, i.e. the escort client, is not impossible. The classic herpes virus, which is often seen on the lips, is particularly contagious and can quickly turn into genital herpes. Even if you don't have any visible herpes on your lips, the woman can be a carrier of the virus and infect her or her best piece with it.

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Consequences for the escort ladies

As mentioned in § 32 of the ProstSchG, “clients and customers have to take care”. In fact, oral sex without protection has no legal consequences for the escort. However, just because there are no legal consequences does not mean that she does not suffer any consequences.

Physical consequences:

So far we have only briefly looked at sexually transmitted diseases, but these are the main reason for the condom requirement. The condom obligation protects you and the escort from various diseases. Yes, there are many diseases that can already be transmitted during a blowjob without a rubber. The best known disease is probably the HI-virus. Even if many are convinced that HIV cannot be transmitted through oral sex, this can still happen under certain circumstances. Especially if the man ejaculates in the lady's mouth and she has small injuries to the oral mucosa, HIV can be transmitted. But this is probably the worst case of sexually transmitted diseases. An infection with HPV can cause genital warts and cervical cancer in the genital area. If the infection occurs in the mouth and throat area, the risk of developing cancer of the larynx or tonsils increases enormously. Other transmissible diseases can be: syphilis, gonorrhoea (gonorrhoea) and herpes.

Psychological consequences:

Many of our escort ladies are young women in their early 20's. They are easily influenced and also often still inexperienced and do not dare to stand up for themselves to older men. Often, however, young women are blackmailed or pressured to the point that they themselves see no other choice but to allow oral sex without a condom. The consequence of forcing a young lady to do something she does not want to do can therefore have a great impact on her self-esteem and self-confidence. Women who are not particularly psychologically stable can fall into depression as a result of the coercion, begin to hurt themselves or even develop attachment disorders with men throughout their lives. It is often difficult for these ladies to continue working as escorts and young students in particular fall into a deep financial hole as a result. For some, especially young ladies, this is like rape and the consequences are similar for the lady.

What else is considered taboo in escort?

Apart from sexual preferences that can harm the escort physically and psychologically, such as hitting, tying up or other practices that subjugate or humiliate the escort, it is important to maintain mutual anonymity and to respect one's own will.

This means for escort clients:

  • The escort lady should not be asked for her private telephone number.
  • The true name of the escort lady remains secret.
  • Accept if the escort lady does not want to answer some questions.
  • Escort ladies are not stalked, threatened or the like.
  • A “No!” is clearly a “No!”. If an escort lady does not want something, this must be considered.

This means for the escort ladies:

  • The client's privacy is respected. In the escort business, you often have to deal with big personalities. Therefore, it is important that what happen on the escort date stays on the escort date. It is not the best friend, the partner or at the next party the story of the football player of FC Bayern and his sexual preferences chatted!
  • As is also the case for the clients, the escort ladies should not ask for private data of the client.
  • There are questions that an escort should not ask a client, such as marital status or profession. If the client wants to talk about it, it is of course okay to ask.
  • Escort ladies should not work pregnant under any circumstances for their own protection and for the protection of the unborn child. If a pregnancy exists, the escort agency must be informed immediately. After all, the above-mentioned infectious diseases can pose a serious risk to the baby.