Male masturbation

Male masturbation has many names. Male masturbation is often described with one of the colloquial euphemisms:

• Jerking off
• Wanking
• Playing with yourself
• Pulling the pud
• Bashing the bishop
• Cracking one off
• Stroking your pope

During a guys’ night out or on club trips, masturbation for men is certainly often talked about, if not bragged about. But as soon as you go out in public, it is still frowned upon in many places to talk openly about solo sex. No matter what funny terms are used to describe the sexual act.

But masturbation is not a sin! And it's not the last resort for losers who didn't meet anyone at the club or festival that night. It is a real sexual act that almost every man enjoys at some point in his life. Masturbation is fun, relaxing and healthy! So let's take a closer look at male masturbation - how it is practised, how it can improve your sex life and increase your personal well-being.

There is no one "right" way to masturbate, but there are some things you can do to make it (even) more pleasurable. It's time to discover what your body is capable of and enjoy a satisfying sex life with the person you can rely on the most: yourself!

Dim the lights, turn on some sensual music, pour a glass of wine, light some candles or do some aromatherapy. These are things we believe will get women ready to masturbate. Or things we do to set the mood for a date. Most men wouldn't think of getting themselves in the mood. The thing is: Masturbation is an act of self-care. Many men grow up thinking that self-care is an act of self-indulgence and somehow unmanly. The truth is that we, just like women, have the best sex when we are relaxed and in our element. This also applies to sex with ourselves. So treat yourself with a bourbon, dim the lights and light some tea lights: you'll be surprised how much this will increase your enjoyment of the act!

Women have their G-spot and we men have our prostate. Yes, this gland is located right in our anus. Many men don't like the thought of anal stimulation, but if they can get past it, an ocean of sexual pleasure awaits them on the other side.

If you want to try it, there are a few things to keep in mind:

• Be sure to wash your hands beforehand
• Trim your fingernails
• Lubricate your fingers or a small toy with plenty of lubricant
• Start by stroking and stimulating the edge of the anus
• Relax before inserting a finger or small anal toy

By the way: It might be difficult to work on the prostate and the penis at the same time. Therefore, especially as a newcomer in this area, concentrate on one of them. You may find anal masturbation uncomfortable, but many men love prostate stimulation. It is worth a try to see if you are one of them.

If you focus only on the head of the penis, you are not giving it enough thought. The corona glandis (the ridge around the glans) and the frenulum (the underside where the glans and shaft meet) have more nerve endings than any other part of the genitals. That is an incontrovertible fact. But there are still other pleasurable places to discover. The scrotum and perineum (located between the testicles and anus) also play a big role in sexual pleasure, if you let them. Pay attention to your balls when you do this. Try gently pulling or lightly squeezing them as you caress them. Massage your perineal area just behind your genitals.

Pro-tip: Try pressing on your perineum during and after climax to intensify the feeling during orgasm.

Experimenting with different types of masturbation may mean incorporating sex toys. Masturbation aids such as artificial vaginas that you push your penis into have come a long way in terms of the sensations they can produce. Prostate stimulators and anal beads can help you include the backdoor in the fun.

Many men rely on pornographic videos, which are available in abundance for free on the internet. But there are other ways, such as watching men masturbate in a sex film. You could also try reading porn or listening to it as an audiobook. Men are visual creatures, but if you close your eyes, you can get to know your body better. You might discover an appreciation for eroticism that you didn't even know you had. By the way, video porn also has a wide horizon. Consider paying for premium porn. There is an erotic sea of fantasy waiting for you behind the paywall.

Before there was porn, men fantasised. This oldest of stimulation techniques still has its place. The mental exercise actually prepares you for the real thing. It's an active process, quite the opposite of passively watching porn.

Imagine your dream partner or a hot scenario. Go into detail. Think of exactly the things you would say or do. You may end up with completely new ideas that you can implement in the bedroom.

Masturbation is not only fun and natural, but also has several health benefits. Like sexual intercourse, masturbation releases hormones such as serotonin and dopamine, which have a number of positive effects. Several clinical studies also suggest that there are many health benefits. These include:

• Stress reduction

• Better sleep

• Better mood

• Greater relaxation

• Pleasure and well-being

• Less cramps

• Less sexual tension

• Better sex

• Probably lower risk of prostate cancer

One thing is certain: as long as you masturbate properly and avoid harmful masturbation practices (see next paragraph), there is basically no such thing as too much or too little masturbation. No adverse health effects have been associated with excess ejaculation. However, there are communities like the no-fap community that rave about the benefits of not masturbating. In fact, a 2016 study published in the journal European Urology found that a man's risk of prostate cancer drops significantly if he ejaculates at least 21 times a month. Music to our ears, isn't it? But not so fast. Unfortunately, the evidence is a little more complicated than that. The problem is that the study was based on self-reporting and did not distinguish in detail between masturbation and sex with a partner. So there are most likely some unforeseen factors at play here.

It's great that masturbation has come out of the woodwork, but it's not all sunshine either. Men can cause themselves sexual problems if they masturbate incorrectly. Here are some things to avoid when masturbating:

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