Spitting

Spitting mainly takes place in the BDSM scene. Like many of the words used there, the term has its origins in the English language: to spit means to spit. What at first sight seems very bizarre and for some rather disgusting, has a high value among the followers of spitting.
But what does spitting mean in the context of sex? The use of spit can certainly have its stimulating aspects - even if one is talking about a fetish. If the thought of being spat on or spitting on someone else is pleasure-increasing, it is most likely a spitting fetish. In fact, this is much more common than some might imagine. However, using one's own spit as a lubricant on one's partner during sex is quite natural for many - without attaching much importance to it. If the very idea of spitting on your partner's body is arousing, spitting sex can be a hot affair.

Do people really spit that often during sex? Counter question: Have you ever looked on a porn website in the category "Blowjob"? If so, you will often find videos in which the person giving the blowjob drools and spits on the man while giving him a blowjob. If you enter the search term "spit in the mouth", you get about 30,000 hits. This proves that people are not only into spitting during sex, but also into watching it! Spitting during sex has become quite common and has even made it into the world of memes. It has become synonymous for many people to call attractive older men "daddy" and to call mature women "milf". Likewise, the expression "spit on me" became the new slang for "take me".

Spitting during sex and the spitting fetish have been around for quite some time and many more people are into it than we can imagine. However, the question remains: why do people do it? Why exactly do some spit on their partner during sex?

Maybe now you understand why spitting games are really very sexy for some. You might even be intrigued enough to want to try it out. Yet, the exchange of spit could be very disturbing for some. So the question arises: how safe is it really to use spit during sex?

Well - anyone who has ever had sex knows the situation where there is a bit of dryness in the female private parts for some reason. If you don't have any lubricant at hand, the next logical alternative seems to be to wet yourself or your partner with spit. However, doctors usually advise against this, and that's because STIs can spread through saliva. The possibility of transmitting oral cancer through oral sex is also real. That's why some health experts even recommend protected oral sex as a matter of principle! "Any STD in the throat or mouth can be transmitted to the genitals through saliva," explains Dr Felice Gersh in an interview with Health magazine. For example, if your partner has an active herpes lesion, you may very well get genital herpes if you use his spit as lubricant.

In fact, this is one of the most common ways genital herpes is transmitted from one sexual partner to another. This is because it is asymptomatic in most cases. Even if you or your partner do not have visible cold sores on your mouth, the virus is still highly transmissible. Herpes is not the only sexually transmitted disease to worry about: "Gonorrhoea, chlamydia, HIV, syphilis and trichomoniasis can also be transmitted through saliva to the genitals," adds Dr Gersh. And by the way, even though HIV transmission through spitting is unlikely, it is not completely ruled out.

So even though spitting (just like drooling) definitely has its downsides, it doesn't have to be avoided completely. However, if you absolutely want to try this sex variation in the bedroom, you should discuss it extensively with your partner beforehand. And: For the reasons mentioned above, you should rather practise safer sex. A good precondition for approaching spitting responsibly is to make sure that both partners are well hydrated. Also, both should be healthy and have no open sores or cold sores on their bodies.

Some people probably already know that their partner will probably never be comfortable with spitting. If this is also the case for you, you are probably seeking alternatives. That's understandable because sexual curiosity, regardless of its nature, cannot usually be permanently suppressed. Rather, pushing it aside often causes frustration over time. It is therefore good to know that many friends of spitting can also be found in the escort service. Fetish escorts are often just as pleased with the idea of spitting as some clients. If you like to get some domina kisses, you are at the right place with escorts with spitting fetish experience who are willing to experiment. Feel free to explore the world of spitting if it gets you hot. An attractive escort lady is guaranteed to make your first experience a memorable one.